I must admit that I think I actually broke my relationship with my girlfriend. We do love each other but we are different characters. She is very outgoing but I am very quiet kind of guy. Maria has been working for London escorts for the last two years, and she loves it. Her speciality is BDSM and up until recently I did not really dare to enter her world of BDSM. She really loves it, and as she is alway busy at London escorts, I do appreciate that she is good at it. But, I must admit that I found it a bit freaky at first.
When I first met Maria, I quickly realized that there were two sides to her. First of all I adored her soft feminine side. The fact that she worked for London escorts did not bother me at all. It was a job to her and I liked all of her colleagues at London escorts. They all came across as very professional to me, and it is was obvious that they worked really hard. Maria did not really pitch BDSM to me, but it was clear that it was an important part of her life. To be honest, I thought that she was happy and getting everything that she needed at work, but that was not the case.
Maria was keen for me to try BDSM as she thought it would bring us closer together. As I did not have an experience of BDSM, I did not think that it would so I always said no. She used to play around with her friends from London escorts and sometimes I watched. It was clear that many of the girls who came around in their spare time from London escorts really did enjoy it, and found it a liberating experience.
After a couple of months, I realized that this was a huge need in Maria’s life and I started to doubt the strange of our relationship. Maria is very friendly and you can talk to her about anything. She felt that I ought to give BDSM ago and explained that it built in a lot of trust in a relationship. Most of her friends from London escorts did trust her completely and it was clear for all to see. She spent a lot of time with the girls from London escorts who wanted to try BDSM and sort of introduced them to it slowly.
In the end, I plucked up my courage and asked Maria to show me what BDSM is all about. The first session was a bit frightening but she was really gentle with me. We took it step by step, and now I feel much more confident. Has it built trust in our relationship? Yes, it has as a matter of fact and I now feel really good when we are together. I trust her with my body and she trusts me with her body. We are a lot closer than many other couples are in many ways. That is something I have noticed about all BDSM couples and I think that the practice can actually help to make a relationship stronger.