Lust isn’t the only reason behind your porn addiction. There are subtle snakes in the grass need to be hunted and confronted. It turns out: there’s pretty ugly stuff, way down deep, that demands our total honesty. When you begin to kick porn and find recovery, you’re often told to watch out for “triggers,” like... Read more »
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I can clearly remember the crushing weight of carrying my secret porn addiction onto the church stage each week. It felt like a million pounds on my chest. At times I wondered whether or not a person could die from stress. If so, I certainly felt like a candidate. I would regularly commit to myself... Read more »
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You’re wondering if taking those risky photos for your husband is okay during his recovery from porn or if it will trigger him to use again. I get it. It sounds innocent enough. I mean, it is photos of yourself for your spouse. Technically speaking, you are staying in the lines of what should be... Read more »
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I am going to be honest with you. If you know me, I think you can expect that from me in everything I write. If you are without a wife or significant other, you can skip this post and read something else. This blog post is just for the married men or those in committed... Read more »
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When I wrote a blog post called “8 Reasons My Wife Won’t Have Sex With Me” I got a lot of great feedback from it and it was viewed over 300,000 times on the first day alone. But one question I kept hearing afterward was: “Could you write one for women and explain to me why... Read more »
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[Note: On Fridays we sometimes post new rants from one of our writers, edited only for typos and spelling. This new series is not for those easily offended or for those who only like to play nice. So read this before you start posting your comments.] First, let me start by saying this post does... Read more »
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I thought marriage would come easily. I pictured a handsome man sweeping in to pick me up and make me whole. I guess I have Disney to blame for that – LOL! Obviously, that fairy tale was exactly that – a fairy tale. Marriage can be difficult, and there are times when I have struggled... Read more »
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Last week I wrote a blog post about my experience watching 50 Shades Darker with my wife Jeanette and what I learned from the movie. You can read that post here. Well since then I’ve received a ton of emails and comments on social about my decision to watch the movie and write that post.... Read more »
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I went to see 50 Shades Darker with Jeanette last night in Hollywood. Two years ago I wrote this blog post. I was even asked to do a sermon at Daybreak Church about the movie for their AT THE MOVIES SERIES. You can watch that HERE. We went to the 10pm show and the first thing... Read more »
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This question in the title of this blog is a tough one. I think every marriage is different, and the ways each one of us are able to handle these types of large questions – especially when our marriages have deteriorated to the point where we’re asking them in the first place – depends on... Read more »
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